Bisexual girlfriend
The V-Spot with Yana Tallon-Hicks: How do I reveal my girlfriend that I’m bisexual?
Hello Yana!
I’m curious about my sexuality. I own, for the majority of my life, thought I was a heterosexual male. But at times I have thought maybe I am bisexual. I’m notified that sexuality is a spectrum. I just don’t know where I country on that spectrum.
I acquire a lovely girlfriend of over a year whom I love very much and I want to tell her what I’m feeling but I don’t really know what to say. If that makes sense could you propose some clarity on how to tell her?
I recognize it’s very easy for me to ask someone for help but I’m scared to tell someone this is how I feel. Even though I know she will be accepting, I still discover it tough, though. Some guidance would be great.
Thanks!
On the Brink of Bi
Dear Brink,
You seem to consider that you need to know just “how bisexual” you are before you have this conversation with your girlfriend. The kind thing about viewing sexuality as a spectrum is that you actually don’t. Not only does a sexuality spectrum hold a wide range of culture options, it’s also
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve never asked for advice before and I don’t realize if this is your lane or not but maybe you can aide me. None of my friends own, anyway.
I (M/34) had been dating “Sarah” (F/28) for over a year, a little under two. The last couple months we were together were rough; we weren’t arguing or fighting, but we definitely weren’t having a wonderful time and we eventually agreed that we were looking for different things from this association and we ended it. This wasn’t something I did easily or lightly; I was really crazy about her, but even I had to concede it wasn’t working.
Well it’s been barely three months and I’m still dealing and feeling awful about it and then I leave on Instagram and I can observe that Sarah’s already got a recent guy. Her IG is nothing but cutesy videos of her and her boyfriend and pictures of the two of them and her talking about how amazing he is and how lucky she is… all the usual stuff.
Doc, I can’t tell you how much this hurts. I’m sitting here on my couch feeling like s--t and she’s all lovey-dovey with a new guy. I feel like it’s a slap in the fa
Bi gf wants to open up for her to be with girls
I hold no problem with the gender restriction if shes fine with it. It depends on her motivation. If she, in truth, wants to date guys too, then Im not sure it will work.MrMark said:
It is not solved, it would be a compromise for me. I dont know if I would be resentful but there is at least a chance that I would not be.
If I agree on something, then the blame is on me for agreeing.Click to expand
But Im not sure compromise without deep knowledge and acceptance is enough here.
I see youre taking on responsibility for making the accord. Thats nice, and it helps conflict resolution later. But if you DO become resentful, then what? Do you expect yourself to suck it up? And if she cant handle the first time youre with another girl and she cant deal with it, do you expect her to suck it up?
I hope not.
Poly doesnt function under such a rigid mindset. Every rigid unchangeable agreement you make will come back to hunt you - just as your monogamous agreements arent productive for your
Dating Bi-Curious Girls: Tips To Help Your Relationship Succeed
Bisexuality among women is the fastest growing area of the LGBTQ+ community, and has been for some time. While this may be in part because acceptance of bisexuality is growing, many women who identify as bisexual still keep that fact to themselves – especially when dating a CIS male. If your girlfriend tells you they are bi-curious – i.e., someone who is attracted to both sexes but does not identify as bisexual – what does that really mean? Is it something that can destroy your relationship? Should you help your girlfriend in exploring their sexuality? And if so, how? This article covers tips to help your relationship with a bi-curious girl succeed.
Bi-curious vs. bisexual
A person who is bi-curious is usually unsure about their sexuality. They may have historically identified as straight, but are finding themselves attracted to both men and women. They may be interested in experimenting with someone of the matching sex but don’t determine as bisexual – at least not yet.
Overall, women may be more attracted to