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Over our more than 20 years of merged experience in matchmaking, Destin and Rachel and their team at  have evolved and adapted in numerous ways.  Although transform and growth are necessary for any business, we still remain true to our original objective of being the most successful, personal, all-encompassing matchmaking service in the industry.  

 

How do we do it?  It begins with quality, not quantity.
 

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To maximize our potential for success, we only work with a small percentage of the people that come to us.  We use our full business resources, energy, and time to aide our clients detect love efficiently - being considerate of their busy lives.  That way we can remain hands-on and personal - unlike large, corporate matchmaking companies that simply service clients by throwing a bunch of dates at them.

 

Whether available, divorced, or widowed, the peo

Meaningful Connections for Gay, Bi, and Queer Men.

By Lgbtq+ Men, For Gay Men.

At Best Man Matchmaking, we’re not just another matchmaking service: we’re a boutique experience designed exclusively for men who are important about finding real love.

In a world overwhelmed by swiping, ghosting, and surface-level encounters, we offer something rare: intentional, genuine matchmaking led by a team that truly understands you. As a proudly gay-owned company, we bring heart, integrity, and an insider’s perspective to every pair we make.

Our expert matchmakers hand-select introductions that are tailored, private, and deeply aligned with your association goals. Every match is vetted, every detail considered. This is not a numbers game- it’s a journey to something exceptional.

Headquartered in iconic West Hollywood and serving clients nationwide, from New York to L.A., Austin to Phoenix, Best Man Matchmaking is the premier destination for men ready to come across the one. Because you’re not looking for just anyone: you’re looking for your best man.

Gay & Lesbian Matchmaking Service New York

Avenue of the Americas, 8th floor,New York,NY,

Our New York-based professional gay matchmaking service is located centrally in midtown Manhattan. Our office is situated on Avenue of the Americas (6th Street) between 46th and 47th lane. Our office is reachable by car or widespread transit. For subway commuters, the 6th line rail at the Rockefeller Centre station is the nearest train station.

Bespoke Matchmaking has been offering a personalized gay matchmaking service to New York residents for many years. Although our NYC office is located in Manhattan, we function with members across the city and beyond. Many of our members are located in the greater New York area, as well as New Jersey, Boston and Philadelphia. If you are single, selective and ready to launch a loving relationship we are looking forward to hearing from you. If you are unable to meet with us in person at our NYC office, we’d be joyful to arrange a Skype interview for you.

As New York’s premier gay and queer woman matchmaker we carefully screen each one of our potential members

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The world's leading gay matchmaker that works exclusively for relationship-focused men.

Say goodbye to hookup apps, blind digital dating services and pricey agencies. Speak hello to genuine, LTR-seeking men. Say hello to your retain matchmaking team. Say hello to Gayquation.

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Select number of matches.

Team assigned and interview.

First date as early as 7 days.

Guaranteed Intros

Choose up to 4 intros per month. Cease anytime. No blind dating.

Personal Team

You'll be assigned up to 3 dedicated matchmakers.

Insta-Dates

Be introduced via email, phone, Zoom or in-person.

Background Checks

With GQ Protect, we verify everyone's authenticity.

Post-Intro Assistance

Add-on services, like Momemtum, help you along the way.

Market Reports

Insight, forecast, numbers, and feedback with Optima.

Mystery Match Monday

Let the mystery unf